tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174401205974376727.post9183634074748648683..comments2011-03-18T12:28:38.903-07:00Comments on Life, Love, and Literature: Admittedly psychosomaticKit Kathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03448141758039673213noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174401205974376727.post-5216275427379471472010-11-29T06:02:29.636-08:002010-11-29T06:02:29.636-08:00Just because you lean on other people does not mea...Just because you lean on other people does not mean the same thing as having someone always having to take care of you. In my own personal opinion it's when we have to humbly lean on others during our tough times, it is a growth experience for us and them. Accepting someone's kindness is a gift to them because in a sense we are saying to them, "I find you worthy so I will accept what you want to give to me." <br /><br />You are in a tough spot right now and even though it is painful and emotional, I really do think that when you get to the other side of all this, you are going to be better then ever. When we are in these down lows or rough spots, there is much wisdom gained and we are given the opportunity to learn more about ourselves and what we want for our lives.<br /><br />I know it feels like you don't have a home right now but just remember wherever you are, you are at home. Of course this doesn't mean you give up on making your own special place to lay your head at night but there is value in enjoying even these moments of feeling displaced. An adventure of sorts and really allowing yourself this time of finding where you want to be.<br /><br />You are taking steps so that you are true to your self...those steps can be painful when it means breaking up with someone you love...or not having a place to call home for the moment.<br /><br />I promise you Kaitlyn...leaning on others right now will not make you like this forever...it will help you go on so that you don't have to. <br /><br />Have you been writing or painting or creating in your emotions? I know those things have been helpful in the past and I know they are helpful for me.<br /><br />You are such a sweet spirit even when your heart is hurting. My prayer is that some day very soon you are able to step back and see all that you are and the beauty that is you. I love you sweet girl. I am cheering you on! Remember I am here, day or night to listen or lean on. ((((Kaitlyn))))Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04441204804740501624noreply@blogger.com